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Re: 19th anniversary of multiple myeloma diagnosis

by TerryH on Mon Nov 07, 2016 12:59 pm

Congratulations on your anniversary, Gary. I look forward to getting an update from you every November for many years to come!

For those who are interested, Gary posted a bit about his treatment history when he joined the forum on the 15th anniversary of his diagnosis. Here's a link to the post, and here's a copy of most of the post:
Well ... in November 1997 I was up, getting ready for work, and going to have a shower. When I reached up to grab a towel off the shower bar, all of a sudden I was on the floor and I could barely breathe, talk, or move!

After taking an ambulance to the local hospital, they confirmed that 3 vertebrae were fractured, with one being compressed and impacting on my spinal chord (1.5 millimeter away). The chord was doing a double 90 degree bend.

After 3 weeks of doing probably every test they had, they still hadn't come up with why this happened. I was then transferred over to Vancouver Hospital, spine unit. Within a half hour, they had done a biopsy and then came back to tell me that I had multiple myeloma. They also said that it was advanced stage 3 and that I had about 6 months to live!

I was devastated! About 3 hours later, the doctor came back and revised the estimated survival to 18 months.I was introduced to the bone marrow transplant staff, who were great! I was put on dexamethasone and put on the list for a stem cell transplant.

I had the stem cell transplant in June and August. but in the meantime, I had 2 more vertebrae go. The stem cell transplant was a success and I was in remission for about 4 years before it came back. Since then, a lot of bones have broke, a lot of drugs have been consumed, a lot of surgeries, a lot of radiations, a lot of emotions have soared, then plummeted.

I've been on Interferon (for only 3 weeks, as I couldn't tolerate it), thalidomide, Revlimid (twice), and am now taking pomalidomide (Pomalyst, Imnovid). All of these with the ever present dexa­methasone. The dex gave me Type 2 diabetes and I'm also on insulin. It seems these drugs work great for a time, then the multiple myeloma does an end run and comes back with a vengeance!

I think the best thing i did at the onset was to turn my will and life over to the God of my under­standing and let him do his thing! It has helped with a lot of the fear i had. I also made a decision to blindly trust my doctors and the rest of the team, as they had a good handle on this, I'm glad I did.

This disease not only affects me, but also those close to me. My kids were fairly young when I was diagnosed and they have handled it pretty well, but I can still notice fear in them regarding my health. My wife has been with me throughout the whole ordeal and is a source of great comfort, but it has definitely affected her also. Sometimes we feel like saying enough of the testing already!

Living with this has caused me to totally change my lifestyle, but it's still good! I go through ups and downs, but still manage to keep my humor (at least I still think I'm funny!).

TerryH

Re: 19th anniversary of multiple myeloma diagnosis

by GaryH on Mon Nov 07, 2016 2:24 pm

Wow! Thanks to all who replied. I did post this in order to encourage people to hang in there, and it seems like it's working.

I don't think that i've done anything extraordinary, just followed what the team of doctors told me. I feel it's important to accept some of the side effects of the chemo as being just a part of the process. I mean, who would want to have neuropathy, chemo brain, diabetes, diarrhea, embolisms, etc. Not I! But dealing with all of these side effects and not getting too concerned has helped me accept my situation.

Then there are all the broken bones, tumors that keep popping up, hepatitis C (I got that from the multitude of needle pricks somehow), liver disease (from the hepatitis C). Last December, I had a bunch of tumors wrapped around my spine, which was unnerving, but thanks to an excellent radiation team, they are gone now. I had to go 5 months this summer wearing a hard neck collar, due to this disease taking out my C6 vertebrae. It was very annoying at the time, but, one day at a time, I got through it. Today, my neck is not in very good condition, but I am trying to adjust to the new reality.

My doctor keeps coming up with new drugs (clinical trials) for me to take. Some have serious side effects. I feel lucky to have been diagnosed when I did, because that was the start of a lot of newer drugs coming onstream that have worked great at the time. Then, we had a good selection, but now, as I've ran through them, I find the options are somewhat limited, but there still seems to be a new one just right when I need it.

I also use medical marijuana and feel that it has helped me so much. It has allowed me to get some sleep when I desperately needed it, It allows me to relax and take things easy. It has helped tremendously with the nausea from chemo. With some of the new studies coming out, it seems like it also enhances the effects of the chemo. It's good all around.

Above all, I still try and turn my will and life over to the God of my understanding and let Him do His magic! Peace, Gary

GaryH
Name: GaryH
Who do you know with myeloma?: Myself
When were you/they diagnosed?: Nov./97
Age at diagnosis: 44

Re: 19th anniversary of multiple myeloma diagnosis

by nowwhat on Mon Nov 07, 2016 2:58 pm

Gary,

Congrats on the anniversary!

How long was your longest remission? Have you literally been on meds since diagnosis?

Thanks and God bless.

nowwhat
Who do you know with myeloma?: dad
When were you/they diagnosed?: 2016
Age at diagnosis: 64

Re: 19th anniversary of multiple myeloma diagnosis

by Mike F on Mon Nov 07, 2016 8:18 pm

Wow. 19 years is just great! Thanks for posting, Gary. You've obviously managed to handle all of this with a level of grace that is to be admired. Your story will help many of us to keep on keepin' on.

Mike F
Name: Mike F
Who do you know with myeloma?: Me
When were you/they diagnosed?: May 18, 2012
Age at diagnosis: 53

Re: 19th anniversary of multiple myeloma diagnosis

by Rhonda on Mon Nov 07, 2016 8:23 pm

Congrats!

What an encouraging story!

Thanks for sharing
Rhonda

Rhonda
Who do you know with myeloma?: myself
When were you/they diagnosed?: September 2014
Age at diagnosis: 54

Re: 19th anniversary of multiple myeloma diagnosis

by chadsnow on Tue Nov 08, 2016 5:49 pm

As someone recently diagnosed, it is great to hear stories like yours. I'd be interested to hear what your thoughts are on the progression of treatment over the last 19 years and if you think a cure in the next 5-10 years is a possibility. I read in someone else's post somewhere here that they were diagnosed 10 or 11 years ago, and they've heard ever since that a cure is "just around the corner". What are your thoughts?

chadsnow
Name: Chad Snow
Who do you know with myeloma?: myself
When were you/they diagnosed?: May 19, 2016
Age at diagnosis: 45

Re: 19th anniversary of multiple myeloma diagnosis

by GaryH on Wed Nov 09, 2016 12:33 pm

Thanks once again!

I don't know about an upcoming cure, as I think the thrust of today's treatment is in improving the manageability of this disease (think diabetes and insulin to treat it). I'm sure there are researchers working on a cure, but I don't know. It will be excellent to have a cure, but that is a ways off yet.

GaryH
Name: GaryH
Who do you know with myeloma?: Myself
When were you/they diagnosed?: Nov./97
Age at diagnosis: 44

Re: 19th anniversary of multiple myeloma diagnosis

by Ilse on Wed Nov 09, 2016 7:55 pm

Hi Gary,

Congratulation! I was diagnosed at age 44, same as you, and have 25 years of multiple myeloma behind me, with the past 10 years without treatment.

Take care and best wishes,
Ilse

Ilse

Re: 19th anniversary of multiple myeloma diagnosis

by GaryH on Thu Nov 10, 2016 12:52 pm

Ilse,

That's very impressive! We should all be like that.

GaryH
Name: GaryH
Who do you know with myeloma?: Myself
When were you/they diagnosed?: Nov./97
Age at diagnosis: 44

Re: 19th anniversary of multiple myeloma diagnosis

by Little Monkey on Thu Nov 10, 2016 10:49 pm

Congrats Gary.

Little Monkey
Name: Little Monkey
Who do you know with myeloma?: Father-stage 1 multiple myeloma
When were you/they diagnosed?: March/April of 2015

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