Day 11 - Addendum
When ever something new or different happens I immediately think, "I have to make sure I tell the Beacon folks".
As expected, the TPN (Total Parenteral Nutrition) started this evening. She is receiving 35 cc per hour of the liquid through her CVL (central line) over 24 hours. It's actually not all that much. My mother's memory is still a little patchy and, though she was the one who told me she was having it and she had spoken with the nurse about it in the afternoon, when it came, she was surprised by it.
She really wanted a shower. It has been a few days, and with her so weak, even getting her to use the CHG wipes has been a challenge. It's really important to keep the skin clean. A shower, a change of clothing, and ... a big handful of hair. My mom took it in stride. I was impressed. She combed her hair, then did a lap. The doctor had come in around 7 pm and said she needed to do one lap. Yesterday, drugged on Dilaudid, she was like a 120-year old woman bent over her IV pole. Today, she was more 80, being careful not to slip. My Dad couldn't stop smiling. (He is not an expressive man.)
As you can imagine, she was exhausted after all this. And a little nauseated. We had to leave at 9:30 pm since the alarms go on at Hope Lodge at 10 pm. I suspect she will sleep well tonight. At least, I hope so.
The holiday's are here and on the shift change, there were fewer staff around. I expect this to be the case through the weekend. The nurses and aids are really busy. No matter what, the family or caregiver really needs to be around to advocate and keep track of things, but I think even more so now over Christmas. My mom isn't remembering things, and when things happen when we aren't around, we don't always know about it.
Okay - that's all for Day 11.
Forums
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Leealli - Name: Allison
- Who do you know with myeloma?: My Mom
- When were you/they diagnosed?: July 2014
- Age at diagnosis: 70
Re: My Mom's Inpatient Stem Cell Transplant at Roswell Park
Mike,
It really is an amazing what they are doing here at Hope Lodge.
Even many of the hotels in the area have an agreement with the hospital.
Without things like this, many people might not be able to get treatment at all.
It's nice to hear another Hope Lodge story.
It really is an amazing what they are doing here at Hope Lodge.
Even many of the hotels in the area have an agreement with the hospital.
Without things like this, many people might not be able to get treatment at all.
It's nice to hear another Hope Lodge story.
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Leealli - Name: Allison
- Who do you know with myeloma?: My Mom
- When were you/they diagnosed?: July 2014
- Age at diagnosis: 70
Re: My Mom's Inpatient Stem Cell Transplant at Roswell Park
Leealli and Mikeb,
I would like to ask how long did it take you to make the arrangements for Hope Lodge. The reason I ask is that recently my husband started seeing a myeloma specialist in NYC and, if things finally go as planned, he will be having his transplant in March at Mt. Sinai hospital. The reason I ask is that our insurance company will only pay travel and lodging expenses if we live more than 50-60 miles one way from the hospital. Unfortunately, living on Long Island, we are only 28 miles from the hospital.
Now I do not drive, therefore I would have to stay in the city while my husband has his transplant and I suppose for the first week or so afterwards after he gets out of the hospital. Public transportation (train and subway) would be too expensive and time consuming for me to travel back and forth each day, and too risky for my husband in the first couple of weeks afterward. Even with the hotel's discounted rates, the cost would be prohibitive. At this point I would appreciate any information you could give me in regards to the Hope Lodge.
Leealli, I have been reading your mom's story and am really pulling for her.
I would like to ask how long did it take you to make the arrangements for Hope Lodge. The reason I ask is that recently my husband started seeing a myeloma specialist in NYC and, if things finally go as planned, he will be having his transplant in March at Mt. Sinai hospital. The reason I ask is that our insurance company will only pay travel and lodging expenses if we live more than 50-60 miles one way from the hospital. Unfortunately, living on Long Island, we are only 28 miles from the hospital.
Now I do not drive, therefore I would have to stay in the city while my husband has his transplant and I suppose for the first week or so afterwards after he gets out of the hospital. Public transportation (train and subway) would be too expensive and time consuming for me to travel back and forth each day, and too risky for my husband in the first couple of weeks afterward. Even with the hotel's discounted rates, the cost would be prohibitive. At this point I would appreciate any information you could give me in regards to the Hope Lodge.
Leealli, I have been reading your mom's story and am really pulling for her.
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Melanie - Name: Melanie
- Who do you know with myeloma?: husband
- When were you/they diagnosed?: July 2014
- Age at diagnosis: 54
Re: My Mom's Inpatient Stem Cell Transplant at Roswell Park
Melanie,
The social work office got us set up with Hope Lodge. Our first appointment with the social worker was the day after Thanksgiving. They put my Mom on a waiting list - but since we don't know when she will actually be discharged, that is a bit of a waiting game. There is a long list.
For my Dad and I, we went to the social work office and she made some phone calls and set my Dad up for Hope Lodge the Monday after my Mom was admitted (a Thursday.) So, all 3 of us stayed in a hotel the night before her admission. The day before admission, she had to go for PRE-admission stuff and to have her central line put in. Then, we stayed locally that night in a hotel that has a deal with Roswell. Then, my Dad and I stay here Thursday through Monday.
The catch - over the weekend, Hope Lodge called to say they no longer had a spot for us until Friday. They don't make people leave - and someone had to stay longer than planned. After a bit of a scramble, my Dad found another hotel - also with a deal with Roswell. We found most of the hotels to be booked for that time.
Then, a week and day after admission, we moved into Hope Lodge.
So some planning and some luck play into all this.
We tried to get into Kevin House, another facility which charges $25 a night for the shared bathroom rooms (and $50 a night for the apartments for the patients), but there was a long waiting list.
It would be worth seeing what else is available in NYC. Your program should have resources for you to help with this.
-Allison
The social work office got us set up with Hope Lodge. Our first appointment with the social worker was the day after Thanksgiving. They put my Mom on a waiting list - but since we don't know when she will actually be discharged, that is a bit of a waiting game. There is a long list.
For my Dad and I, we went to the social work office and she made some phone calls and set my Dad up for Hope Lodge the Monday after my Mom was admitted (a Thursday.) So, all 3 of us stayed in a hotel the night before her admission. The day before admission, she had to go for PRE-admission stuff and to have her central line put in. Then, we stayed locally that night in a hotel that has a deal with Roswell. Then, my Dad and I stay here Thursday through Monday.
The catch - over the weekend, Hope Lodge called to say they no longer had a spot for us until Friday. They don't make people leave - and someone had to stay longer than planned. After a bit of a scramble, my Dad found another hotel - also with a deal with Roswell. We found most of the hotels to be booked for that time.
Then, a week and day after admission, we moved into Hope Lodge.
So some planning and some luck play into all this.
We tried to get into Kevin House, another facility which charges $25 a night for the shared bathroom rooms (and $50 a night for the apartments for the patients), but there was a long waiting list.
It would be worth seeing what else is available in NYC. Your program should have resources for you to help with this.
-Allison
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Leealli - Name: Allison
- Who do you know with myeloma?: My Mom
- When were you/they diagnosed?: July 2014
- Age at diagnosis: 70
Re: My Mom's Inpatient Stem Cell Transplant at Roswell Park
Day 12
According to the nutritionist, this is the day many auto transplant patients are released. (We are expecting 3 to 4 weeks.) While that is certainly not going to happen here, Day 12 is proving to be an improvement from Day 11 and 10.
The overnight blood work came back:
WBC: 2.71 (up)
Hemoglobin: 9.1 (up)
Platelets: 26 (down a little)
The doctor said that in about 48 hours, my Mom should start getting some of her energy back and that for the rest of today, shewould keep everything the same regarding meds and the TPN (Total Parenteral Nutrition).
As for my mom, she is certainly looking better. She did 2 laps earlier today and the PT came up to her and said that she looked less like a zombie. I suppose that’s as good a compliment as any. She is retaining information and communicating better. Her throat still hurts on the first sip of something, but then is fine. I knew that today was a different day when we walked in this morning and she had a cup of orange juice in her hand. In the afternoon, she did 3 laps and then asked for a popsicle! I practically ran to the fridge down hall!
Since my mother hasn’t eaten since Friday, the nutritionist wants her to order something at each meal and take one bite. The different flavors will stimulate the appetite. She also said that the longer someone is on TPN, the longer the hospital stay tends to be. My Mom ate most of a small container of mandarin oranges and a full cup of tea at lunch. Then she wanted to look at her IPad – which she hasn’t had any interest in since Friday. She stayed awake for a few hours at a time. These are all good signs.
She is still having diarrhea and a little underlying nausea. The mix of Ativan and Zofran makes this tolerable. And she is still alternating between liquid Lomotil and Imodium. She is now keeping all her meds down.
She is also coughing less. She has been coughing so much and so hard that she throws up. She was able to do the CHG wipes, which she just hasn’t had the energy to do the last few days. These are viewed to be very important – especially nice she is neutropenic.
It’s important for the family member or caregiver to keep reminding about the CHG wipes and the mouth care. I know my mom knows she needs to do these things and understands their importance, but she just needs some reminding. As she has gotten weaker, she has struggled just to open all the containers – the tooth swab, the Biotene. As I keep saying: It’s a family affair.
It was nice to see my parents taking a walk together. My Dad makes sure my mom takes her meds, remembers her spirometry, and hands her a hand exerciser or a weight. Or he will get up out of his chair to adjust her sheet and give her a pat. It’s very sweet.
It’s a bit quieter in the hospital today. The holiday staff is on and everyone is trying to be a little bit in the Christmas spirit. Honestly, it’s not easy. There are more visitors on the unit today than in the past. Also, it’s nearly 60 degrees F (16 degrees C) outside. I have a little more competition for the washer and dryer today with so much family around. We change her pillowcase everyday, since she has her own, and do her towels everyday.
Since my mom has started to eat again, I thought this was a good time to talk about food. Here in the hospital, SCT patients are on a low microbial diet.
The low microbial foods are considered safer to eat – canned foods and cooked foods, as opposed to fresh fruits, raw vegetables, and tap water. Also, great care has to be taken in the preparation and storage of meat. Since an SCT patient is compromised when it comes to fighting infection, they are more susceptible and can’t fight off the bacteria and fungi that we normally can. So, no salads, no garnish, no tap water, no left overs after the 2nd day, nothing that has not been washed and then peeled or cooked, nothing with Blue cheese. I find that the inpatient guide lists some things that a person just wouldn’t eat anyways – uncooked macaroni anyone? This guide is one of the many patient education guides placed all over the hospital here.
There is also an outpatient guide – I’ll talk about that when that time gets closer.
That’s all for now.
Merry Christmas Eve everyone. Enjoy the fudge.
-Allison
According to the nutritionist, this is the day many auto transplant patients are released. (We are expecting 3 to 4 weeks.) While that is certainly not going to happen here, Day 12 is proving to be an improvement from Day 11 and 10.
The overnight blood work came back:
WBC: 2.71 (up)
Hemoglobin: 9.1 (up)
Platelets: 26 (down a little)
The doctor said that in about 48 hours, my Mom should start getting some of her energy back and that for the rest of today, shewould keep everything the same regarding meds and the TPN (Total Parenteral Nutrition).
As for my mom, she is certainly looking better. She did 2 laps earlier today and the PT came up to her and said that she looked less like a zombie. I suppose that’s as good a compliment as any. She is retaining information and communicating better. Her throat still hurts on the first sip of something, but then is fine. I knew that today was a different day when we walked in this morning and she had a cup of orange juice in her hand. In the afternoon, she did 3 laps and then asked for a popsicle! I practically ran to the fridge down hall!
Since my mother hasn’t eaten since Friday, the nutritionist wants her to order something at each meal and take one bite. The different flavors will stimulate the appetite. She also said that the longer someone is on TPN, the longer the hospital stay tends to be. My Mom ate most of a small container of mandarin oranges and a full cup of tea at lunch. Then she wanted to look at her IPad – which she hasn’t had any interest in since Friday. She stayed awake for a few hours at a time. These are all good signs.
She is still having diarrhea and a little underlying nausea. The mix of Ativan and Zofran makes this tolerable. And she is still alternating between liquid Lomotil and Imodium. She is now keeping all her meds down.
She is also coughing less. She has been coughing so much and so hard that she throws up. She was able to do the CHG wipes, which she just hasn’t had the energy to do the last few days. These are viewed to be very important – especially nice she is neutropenic.
It’s important for the family member or caregiver to keep reminding about the CHG wipes and the mouth care. I know my mom knows she needs to do these things and understands their importance, but she just needs some reminding. As she has gotten weaker, she has struggled just to open all the containers – the tooth swab, the Biotene. As I keep saying: It’s a family affair.
It was nice to see my parents taking a walk together. My Dad makes sure my mom takes her meds, remembers her spirometry, and hands her a hand exerciser or a weight. Or he will get up out of his chair to adjust her sheet and give her a pat. It’s very sweet.
It’s a bit quieter in the hospital today. The holiday staff is on and everyone is trying to be a little bit in the Christmas spirit. Honestly, it’s not easy. There are more visitors on the unit today than in the past. Also, it’s nearly 60 degrees F (16 degrees C) outside. I have a little more competition for the washer and dryer today with so much family around. We change her pillowcase everyday, since she has her own, and do her towels everyday.
Since my mom has started to eat again, I thought this was a good time to talk about food. Here in the hospital, SCT patients are on a low microbial diet.
The low microbial foods are considered safer to eat – canned foods and cooked foods, as opposed to fresh fruits, raw vegetables, and tap water. Also, great care has to be taken in the preparation and storage of meat. Since an SCT patient is compromised when it comes to fighting infection, they are more susceptible and can’t fight off the bacteria and fungi that we normally can. So, no salads, no garnish, no tap water, no left overs after the 2nd day, nothing that has not been washed and then peeled or cooked, nothing with Blue cheese. I find that the inpatient guide lists some things that a person just wouldn’t eat anyways – uncooked macaroni anyone? This guide is one of the many patient education guides placed all over the hospital here.
There is also an outpatient guide – I’ll talk about that when that time gets closer.
That’s all for now.
Merry Christmas Eve everyone. Enjoy the fudge.
-Allison
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Leealli - Name: Allison
- Who do you know with myeloma?: My Mom
- When were you/they diagnosed?: July 2014
- Age at diagnosis: 70
Re: My Mom's Inpatient Stem Cell Transplant at Roswell Park
Hi Melanie,
In answer to your question about Hope Lodge in NYC - like with Allison, a social worker at Memorial Sloan Kettering (where I had my SCT) set everything up with Hope Lodge for us. I think she first contacted Hope Lodge to set up a tentative reservation a couple weeks or so before my SCT. I would imagine they will do the same thing for your husband at Mt. Sinai. I don't think you can even get into Hope Lodge unless someone affiliated with one of the NYC hospitals "recommends" you to stay there.
We also had the situation where the anticipated date for my discharge from the hospital and check-in to Hope Lodge kept slipping. It took longer than expected for my white blood cell count (WBC) and absolute neutrophil count (ANC) to get high enough for me to leave the hospital. It's not uncommon for the date to change, so both the hospital social worker and the Hope Lodge people were used to dealing with this kind of situation. But as Allison said in her case, if there's not an opening at Hope Lodge when you need to go in, then things can get a little more complicated. In my case, there was an opening, so everything worked out ok for us.
I would suggest asking your husband's medical team at Mt. Sinai about Hope Lodge. They will be able to give you detailed information. Here is the NYC Hope Lodge web page:
http://www.cancer.org/treatment/supportprogramsservices/hopelodge/newyorkcity/new-york-city-about-our-facility
Good luck with your husband's SCT!
Mike
In answer to your question about Hope Lodge in NYC - like with Allison, a social worker at Memorial Sloan Kettering (where I had my SCT) set everything up with Hope Lodge for us. I think she first contacted Hope Lodge to set up a tentative reservation a couple weeks or so before my SCT. I would imagine they will do the same thing for your husband at Mt. Sinai. I don't think you can even get into Hope Lodge unless someone affiliated with one of the NYC hospitals "recommends" you to stay there.
We also had the situation where the anticipated date for my discharge from the hospital and check-in to Hope Lodge kept slipping. It took longer than expected for my white blood cell count (WBC) and absolute neutrophil count (ANC) to get high enough for me to leave the hospital. It's not uncommon for the date to change, so both the hospital social worker and the Hope Lodge people were used to dealing with this kind of situation. But as Allison said in her case, if there's not an opening at Hope Lodge when you need to go in, then things can get a little more complicated. In my case, there was an opening, so everything worked out ok for us.
I would suggest asking your husband's medical team at Mt. Sinai about Hope Lodge. They will be able to give you detailed information. Here is the NYC Hope Lodge web page:
http://www.cancer.org/treatment/supportprogramsservices/hopelodge/newyorkcity/new-york-city-about-our-facility
Good luck with your husband's SCT!
Mike
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mikeb - Name: mikeb
- Who do you know with myeloma?: self
- When were you/they diagnosed?: 2009 (MGUS at that time)
- Age at diagnosis: 55
Re: My Mom's Inpatient Stem Cell Transplant at Roswell Park
Day 13
Now that we are on the other side of down slide, it looks like each day will be a little better than the last.
The big news today is the white blood cell counts jumping from 2.71 to 5.23. This makes her neutrophils 3.87. For the first time in a many days, there is not an “L” next to these numbers. Her platelets are lagging behind and actually dropped again from 26 to 23. She is continuing to get extra potassium and magnesium.
She is certainly feeling a little better. Her throat hurts less and her eyes seem more open. She still has some nausea and the diarrhea is holding on. Mostly, she is very tired. She is still having some swelling in her ankles and feet. She is more alert, though, I would say she is a few seconds behind in what is going on and we have to be aware of saying things clearly and making sure she takes it in.
Last night, the nurse buzzed her hair. It was coming out steadily and her pillow and sheets were covered in hair. The nurse was very sweet. Even though she was very busy, she offered to do it and took good care with the process. My mom was prepared with a number of hats, which she has been collecting.
My Dad and I were here when the NP came in this morning. They discussed the diarrhea and the swelling. She would consult with the doctor about the plan for today.
After an attempt at a few bites of scrambled eggs, she got up and cleaned up with the pleasantly warmed CHG (chlorhexidine gluconate) wipes and put on actual pajamas for the first time since Monday. (Bring pajamas that button up the front – this makes it easier for all the lines coming out of the CVL).
She put on her Santa hat and she and my Dad took a slow 3 laps.
Throughout the morning, my brother sent a steady stream of photos and video as his 3 boys opened gifts. They had all the gifts from my parents and are the types of kids who open a gift and then go and play with it. They really know how to draw it out. It makes for a nice story in the arrival of the photos.
Roswell really has made the effort this holiday season to keep things festive. It’s the very little things that make a big difference. From the decorations all over and outside of the hospital, to EVERYONE wishing you Merry Christmas, the cheerful staff, the free parking! (That was a nice one!) Festive napkins and even little handmade crafts are on every tray of food, with a candy cane inside of it, which we hung on the counter in the room. While today doesn’t really ‘feel’ like Christmas, in that we are doing none of the traditional activities, the little touches are greatly appreciated.
After a visit from her sister with her present (which we opened since her platelets are so low and a paper cut could be a bigger event), she was started on Lasix in response to the swelling and some weight gain over the last day. She has been through this before; regular trips to the bathroom ensue. At this time, her fentanyl constant dose was cut in half to 5 micrograms. She has not used the pump with the extra dose of 15 micrograms that is available every 15 minutes for a few days. She never found it to help much, and she kept forgetting that it was there.
The doctor came in a little before 1:30 pm just as she was throwing up a little bit of lunch. She had tried some soup and a few chilled peaches. He said that, after several days of not eating, she could experience delayed gastric emptying and told her not to push the eating. A single bite at each meal was fine since she is receiving TPN.
Notice the difference between this bag of TPN that went in last night and the one on Day 11. I thought it was interesting.
The bag that went in tonight was the same as yesterday.
The TPN will continue tonight and, since she had Lasix, would lower the saline drip for her. He told her to walk, walk, walk, and to do her sit / stand exercises. The walking she can do, the sit / stands aren’t possible yet.
Both he and the NP think she could be headed for discharge next week, but not before all the GI issues resolve and her calorie intake gets closer to what it should be. It that is the case, it would be on the inside of what we were told – we were told not to be surprised if it was 28 days due to her age. (They say that thing about her age a lot!)
By now, she was wiped out and her legs were shaky. She took a solid nap tucked into bed in her Santa hat. I took this opportunity to snooze in the chair. I find that, during the mid afternoon, there is a solid stretch of time with few to no interruptions. It’s a good time for a nap.
More meds came around 3:30 pm, followed by 3 more laps, and then we managed to open a few stocking gifts. Last night, I hung them on the wall: Hung on the wall with care. It wasn’t long before she couldn’t keep her eyes open ... I think the present opening is going to take a good bit of time this year! Last night, my Dad and I discovered a channel on the television that's showing a glowing fire and playing Christmas music. We have had that on most of the day in the room for a little ambiance. It’s very pleasant.
In the evening, she got another round of TPN and a small dose of magnesium. That potassium and magnesium is very pesky!
The Lasix makes her tired, so the day didn’t continue the way it started. Mostly she dozed and went to bed very early.
Back at Hope Lodge, I am doing laundry in the basement. They have two washers and two dryers. Sheets and towels are provided, but we wash them on our own. All this living out of town takes some planning.
Wishing you all a Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays. A woman said to me the other day, after a particularly difficult few days, that there is a bit of good in every day. Sometimes you have to search for it; but it’s there.
May you all have found your bit of good in this day.
Now that we are on the other side of down slide, it looks like each day will be a little better than the last.
The big news today is the white blood cell counts jumping from 2.71 to 5.23. This makes her neutrophils 3.87. For the first time in a many days, there is not an “L” next to these numbers. Her platelets are lagging behind and actually dropped again from 26 to 23. She is continuing to get extra potassium and magnesium.
She is certainly feeling a little better. Her throat hurts less and her eyes seem more open. She still has some nausea and the diarrhea is holding on. Mostly, she is very tired. She is still having some swelling in her ankles and feet. She is more alert, though, I would say she is a few seconds behind in what is going on and we have to be aware of saying things clearly and making sure she takes it in.
Last night, the nurse buzzed her hair. It was coming out steadily and her pillow and sheets were covered in hair. The nurse was very sweet. Even though she was very busy, she offered to do it and took good care with the process. My mom was prepared with a number of hats, which she has been collecting.
My Dad and I were here when the NP came in this morning. They discussed the diarrhea and the swelling. She would consult with the doctor about the plan for today.
After an attempt at a few bites of scrambled eggs, she got up and cleaned up with the pleasantly warmed CHG (chlorhexidine gluconate) wipes and put on actual pajamas for the first time since Monday. (Bring pajamas that button up the front – this makes it easier for all the lines coming out of the CVL).
She put on her Santa hat and she and my Dad took a slow 3 laps.
Throughout the morning, my brother sent a steady stream of photos and video as his 3 boys opened gifts. They had all the gifts from my parents and are the types of kids who open a gift and then go and play with it. They really know how to draw it out. It makes for a nice story in the arrival of the photos.
Roswell really has made the effort this holiday season to keep things festive. It’s the very little things that make a big difference. From the decorations all over and outside of the hospital, to EVERYONE wishing you Merry Christmas, the cheerful staff, the free parking! (That was a nice one!) Festive napkins and even little handmade crafts are on every tray of food, with a candy cane inside of it, which we hung on the counter in the room. While today doesn’t really ‘feel’ like Christmas, in that we are doing none of the traditional activities, the little touches are greatly appreciated.
After a visit from her sister with her present (which we opened since her platelets are so low and a paper cut could be a bigger event), she was started on Lasix in response to the swelling and some weight gain over the last day. She has been through this before; regular trips to the bathroom ensue. At this time, her fentanyl constant dose was cut in half to 5 micrograms. She has not used the pump with the extra dose of 15 micrograms that is available every 15 minutes for a few days. She never found it to help much, and she kept forgetting that it was there.
The doctor came in a little before 1:30 pm just as she was throwing up a little bit of lunch. She had tried some soup and a few chilled peaches. He said that, after several days of not eating, she could experience delayed gastric emptying and told her not to push the eating. A single bite at each meal was fine since she is receiving TPN.
Notice the difference between this bag of TPN that went in last night and the one on Day 11. I thought it was interesting.
The bag that went in tonight was the same as yesterday.
The TPN will continue tonight and, since she had Lasix, would lower the saline drip for her. He told her to walk, walk, walk, and to do her sit / stand exercises. The walking she can do, the sit / stands aren’t possible yet.
Both he and the NP think she could be headed for discharge next week, but not before all the GI issues resolve and her calorie intake gets closer to what it should be. It that is the case, it would be on the inside of what we were told – we were told not to be surprised if it was 28 days due to her age. (They say that thing about her age a lot!)
By now, she was wiped out and her legs were shaky. She took a solid nap tucked into bed in her Santa hat. I took this opportunity to snooze in the chair. I find that, during the mid afternoon, there is a solid stretch of time with few to no interruptions. It’s a good time for a nap.
More meds came around 3:30 pm, followed by 3 more laps, and then we managed to open a few stocking gifts. Last night, I hung them on the wall: Hung on the wall with care. It wasn’t long before she couldn’t keep her eyes open ... I think the present opening is going to take a good bit of time this year! Last night, my Dad and I discovered a channel on the television that's showing a glowing fire and playing Christmas music. We have had that on most of the day in the room for a little ambiance. It’s very pleasant.
In the evening, she got another round of TPN and a small dose of magnesium. That potassium and magnesium is very pesky!
The Lasix makes her tired, so the day didn’t continue the way it started. Mostly she dozed and went to bed very early.
Back at Hope Lodge, I am doing laundry in the basement. They have two washers and two dryers. Sheets and towels are provided, but we wash them on our own. All this living out of town takes some planning.
Wishing you all a Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays. A woman said to me the other day, after a particularly difficult few days, that there is a bit of good in every day. Sometimes you have to search for it; but it’s there.
May you all have found your bit of good in this day.
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Leealli - Name: Allison
- Who do you know with myeloma?: My Mom
- When were you/they diagnosed?: July 2014
- Age at diagnosis: 70
Re: My Mom's Inpatient Stem Cell Transplant at Roswell Park
Hi Allison,
I'm glad to hear that you Mom is doing better day by day! I think it's a great sign that her WBC count and neutrophils have come back up so well. That's a sure sign that she is rebounding.
You're so right - there is good in every day. When you've been in the hospital for an extended period, sometimes it is hard to see that good. But it is still there if you look hard enough. Your positive attitude, and your Dad's, are bound to be a big help to your Mom.
Mike
I'm glad to hear that you Mom is doing better day by day! I think it's a great sign that her WBC count and neutrophils have come back up so well. That's a sure sign that she is rebounding.
You're so right - there is good in every day. When you've been in the hospital for an extended period, sometimes it is hard to see that good. But it is still there if you look hard enough. Your positive attitude, and your Dad's, are bound to be a big help to your Mom.
Mike
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mikeb - Name: mikeb
- Who do you know with myeloma?: self
- When were you/they diagnosed?: 2009 (MGUS at that time)
- Age at diagnosis: 55
Re: My Mom's Inpatient Stem Cell Transplant at Roswell Park
Day 14
As planned, all the way back in November, my brother came for a visit today. It was nice to have us all together – even if it’s in a hospital room. This bigger room makes it possible for us all to visit.
My mom has made another move back up the slide.
WBC: 7.28 (in the normal range)
Hemoglobin 9.5
Platelets: 35 (on the rise)
Neutrophils absolute manual count: 4.95 (in the normal range).
Her pain from the mucositis is slight and she is much more alert today. The diarrhea and nausea are still ever-present. Overnight she started having some mid-back pain and she used her pain pump for that. She still has some swelling, though the Lasix did it’s job yesterday and she took off several pounds of fluids.
Another sure sign of progress is that my mom got dressed in real clothes today. Almost as soon as I arrived this morning, we picked out clothes for the day.
For breakfast, she had a little bit of cream of wheat with milk and some tea. Then a nap.
At 10:30 am, the constant dose of fentanyl was dropped to zero. She still has the pump, which she controls if she needs it. She is still receiving her antibiotic and antifungal each day via IV, but I suspect that will soon go back to being a pill. This will be that many fewer fluids going in.
At 11 am, she got CHG’ed, got dressed, did mouth care, and got into the chair. The act of getting ready is always exhausting
The PT was in at 11:45 am and wanted her to get back to doing more than just walking. She had her do 20 step-ups and 15 sit / stands. My Mom is game. She understands the importance. Just a little while later, the nurse came in to listen to her heart because the PT had noticed that her pulse / oxygen had gone down a bit. However, everything was fine.
This time, we got through the Christmas stockings. Lunch was tomato soup and some tea and then time for another nap. (See a pattern emerging?)
At 2:00 pm, she walked 3 laps and then was ready for more gifts. We had brought everything with us, not knowing what she would be up too. My Dad and I are very much living out of the trunks of our cars! We had a nice time, taking turns opening gifts. It wasn’t the traditional Christmas, but it was fun.
After another nap (!), the doctor came in. Her TPN is being reduced to being over a 12-hour period instead of over 24 hours. As he has suggested from the beginning, he encouraged her to try to get a bite of yogurt for those active yogurt cultures and, in general, to eat what she can. He promises that the diarrhea and anorexia will go away. The anorexia worries my mom quite a bit. The doctor has talked about this a lot right from the beginning of the process, but experiencing it is quite a different thing. He is pleased with her counts, but said that her white blood cells are a bit beat up. Considering what they have been through, this can’t be a surprise. The growth factor shots have been discontinued. This means one less injection into the abdomen each day. (Yay!)
As the PT wished, 3 more laps and then 15 more steps-ups and 10 more sit / stands. I say that’s pretty impressive after the week she has had.
As always, the TPN arrived at 6 pm. This bag is a bit smaller and being administered at 33 ml for the first hour, 66 ml per hour for the next 10 hours, and 33 ml for the final hour. (We go our whole lives being told not to eat at night!) Interesting to note: When the TPN is administered, the nurse wears a mask, as does the patient, and sterile gloves are used, since the cap has to be changed at the connection point. I find all these details fascinating.
Dinner (actual dinner) was an entire bowl of chicken broth (which she found to taste good!) and a spoonful of yogurt. And she kept it all down.
She got in one more lap for a total of 7. And, and if you are keeping track, that is one more than yesterday. Then a quick shower ... made quicker by the lack of need to wash and deal with hair. Then, gratefully, into bed.
I have to take a moment to acknowledge the nurses and aids on the floor. They are really remarkable. Even this holiday weekend, when they are short staffed, they are just as attentive and aware and responsive as ever. They are friendly, have a good sense of humor, and are appropriately concerned. I am particularly impressed with how shift changes are handled. The new nurse coming is always so well informed and prepared. We have been very impressed and incredibly grateful.
Today was one of those days when it was easier to find the good. We had a nice time together as a family. We opened gifts, took turns walking with my Mom, ate together, and had a chance to catch up.
-Allison
As planned, all the way back in November, my brother came for a visit today. It was nice to have us all together – even if it’s in a hospital room. This bigger room makes it possible for us all to visit.
My mom has made another move back up the slide.
WBC: 7.28 (in the normal range)
Hemoglobin 9.5
Platelets: 35 (on the rise)
Neutrophils absolute manual count: 4.95 (in the normal range).
Her pain from the mucositis is slight and she is much more alert today. The diarrhea and nausea are still ever-present. Overnight she started having some mid-back pain and she used her pain pump for that. She still has some swelling, though the Lasix did it’s job yesterday and she took off several pounds of fluids.
Another sure sign of progress is that my mom got dressed in real clothes today. Almost as soon as I arrived this morning, we picked out clothes for the day.
For breakfast, she had a little bit of cream of wheat with milk and some tea. Then a nap.
At 10:30 am, the constant dose of fentanyl was dropped to zero. She still has the pump, which she controls if she needs it. She is still receiving her antibiotic and antifungal each day via IV, but I suspect that will soon go back to being a pill. This will be that many fewer fluids going in.
At 11 am, she got CHG’ed, got dressed, did mouth care, and got into the chair. The act of getting ready is always exhausting
The PT was in at 11:45 am and wanted her to get back to doing more than just walking. She had her do 20 step-ups and 15 sit / stands. My Mom is game. She understands the importance. Just a little while later, the nurse came in to listen to her heart because the PT had noticed that her pulse / oxygen had gone down a bit. However, everything was fine.
This time, we got through the Christmas stockings. Lunch was tomato soup and some tea and then time for another nap. (See a pattern emerging?)
At 2:00 pm, she walked 3 laps and then was ready for more gifts. We had brought everything with us, not knowing what she would be up too. My Dad and I are very much living out of the trunks of our cars! We had a nice time, taking turns opening gifts. It wasn’t the traditional Christmas, but it was fun.
After another nap (!), the doctor came in. Her TPN is being reduced to being over a 12-hour period instead of over 24 hours. As he has suggested from the beginning, he encouraged her to try to get a bite of yogurt for those active yogurt cultures and, in general, to eat what she can. He promises that the diarrhea and anorexia will go away. The anorexia worries my mom quite a bit. The doctor has talked about this a lot right from the beginning of the process, but experiencing it is quite a different thing. He is pleased with her counts, but said that her white blood cells are a bit beat up. Considering what they have been through, this can’t be a surprise. The growth factor shots have been discontinued. This means one less injection into the abdomen each day. (Yay!)
As the PT wished, 3 more laps and then 15 more steps-ups and 10 more sit / stands. I say that’s pretty impressive after the week she has had.
As always, the TPN arrived at 6 pm. This bag is a bit smaller and being administered at 33 ml for the first hour, 66 ml per hour for the next 10 hours, and 33 ml for the final hour. (We go our whole lives being told not to eat at night!) Interesting to note: When the TPN is administered, the nurse wears a mask, as does the patient, and sterile gloves are used, since the cap has to be changed at the connection point. I find all these details fascinating.
Dinner (actual dinner) was an entire bowl of chicken broth (which she found to taste good!) and a spoonful of yogurt. And she kept it all down.
She got in one more lap for a total of 7. And, and if you are keeping track, that is one more than yesterday. Then a quick shower ... made quicker by the lack of need to wash and deal with hair. Then, gratefully, into bed.
I have to take a moment to acknowledge the nurses and aids on the floor. They are really remarkable. Even this holiday weekend, when they are short staffed, they are just as attentive and aware and responsive as ever. They are friendly, have a good sense of humor, and are appropriately concerned. I am particularly impressed with how shift changes are handled. The new nurse coming is always so well informed and prepared. We have been very impressed and incredibly grateful.
Today was one of those days when it was easier to find the good. We had a nice time together as a family. We opened gifts, took turns walking with my Mom, ate together, and had a chance to catch up.
-Allison
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Leealli - Name: Allison
- Who do you know with myeloma?: My Mom
- When were you/they diagnosed?: July 2014
- Age at diagnosis: 70
Re: My Mom's Inpatient Stem Cell Transplant at Roswell Park
Day 15
Slowly but surely; but very slowly.
My Mom is very tired and moving slower today. She was not able to get back to sleep after each interruption during the night. Perhaps this is because she is no longer getting the constant does of fentanyl. I suppose there has to be some effect from a few weeks of not getting a consistent solid amount of sleep. She used the pain pump of fentanyl once overnight for some back pain, which resolved. The overnight TPN (total parenteral nutrition) stopped at 6 am this morning and her IV pole looks very empty. She needed magnesium this morning.
She was able to eat a little cream of wheat and a bit of yogurt for breakfast before a short nap. She is still dealing with diarrhea, though the occurrences seem to be less frequent. The nausea holds but is tolerable with the regular doses of Zofran and Ativan.
I notice she seems a little slow today in reactions too – she seems several steps behind what is happening today. I suspect that comes from a lack of REM sleep. Her BP is normal and the swelling in her feet has decreased a little.
Her counts went down today:
WBC: 5.59 (down)
Hemoglobin : 8.6 (down)
Platelets : 41 (up!)
AMC: 3.19 (down)
The doctor said she may need another growth factor shot, which was discontinued yesterday, and, if she needs a unit of blood, it would not be out of the ordinary. The platelets, which lagged behind for a few days, seem to have caught up.
The meds are starting to change up a little. Sometimes, when this happens, it’s a complete surprise. I realize it’s how the system works. The NP makes the order after rounds, and then the nurses respond. I often wish that someone would come and talk to us about it before it happens so that we understand the reason.
The Actigall and lactobacillus was stopped a few days ago when she was having problems swallowing. The Actigall (liver function) probably won’t come back if my mom continues to have normal liver function, but the lactobacillus may if my Mom wants that. It seems to me that, when she can swallow, this could be helpful in getting rid of the diarrhea. It goes along with the doctor wanting her to eat some yogurt several times a day (at least that’s my unscientific opinion).
New today is Cymbalta (duloxetine), used for depression, but the doctor said this is also for neuropathy. I looked it up and it also can be for pain. I had thought that was its purpose before we had a chance to talk to the doctor. However, she still got her gabapentin a few hours later, so I’m not sure what’s happening here yet. I need to find that out.
The short post-breakfast nap was interrupted for her antibiotic at 10 am.
At 11 am, my mom got CHG’d (it’s a verb, right?) and dressed and did 3 laps. She is moving slower today and making more used of her IV pole for support. But she is moving.
At 11:30 am, a round of meds came (Zofran, antifungal, Cymbalta).
Then 10 sit / stands and 15 step-ups. Again, these were not quite as ‘sure’ as yesterday. She is clearly fatigued today.
At noon, she was able to go through the pile of Christmas cards that my Dad has had waiting for her, and she opened a few more of the “one gift per day” gifts from the bag her sister-in-law and niece sent in the early days of this.
The doctor came at 12:30 pm. This is the first time he has come in when she is not in bed or sleeping. He got to see her in the chair and noticed that she was dressed in real clothes. We discussed what I had mentioned previously as well as the option for a fentanyl patch for pain if needed.
He also is talking discharge more and more. With New Year’s Day being next Thursday, it makes discharge a little trickier, since discharged patients have to come back the next day to the BMT clinic. All that needs to be sorted out.
This sets the head spinning a bit – It will be a bit of a move getting my mom out of there and into Hope Lodge. (And it’s supposed to get really cold next week.) I have to leave on January 1st for a week. My brother is away UNTIL January 1st. So there is a one day gap when neither of us can help with a move. We also don’t know if a room with a private bathroom will be available at Hope Lodge. If so, there will be a move inside of Hope Lodge. If not, the plan is for my parents to stay where my Dad and I have been and they will block off the bathroom next to our room just for them. I will be getting my things out of there before I leave and I already have plans to move to a hotel if there is an overlap.
Tomorrow, my Dad is going back home. The carpet cleaners are coming on Monday. He will bring back my Mom’s suitcases, some clothes for my mom, and containers of frozen food that my Mom got all ready in advance for the time at Hope Lodge. I will go there after I get back from my trip to continue with the washing of smaller carpets and a little more cleaning.
Logistics, logistics, logistics.
Housekeeping came in at 1:15 pm, so we were off to do 3 more laps followed by a nap in the bed.
At 2:00 pm, the nurse came in with the gabapentin and we were surprised to learn that the Caphasol (mouth swish) has been discontinued. I challenged it a bit with the very nice nurse, noting that yesterday her WBC was 7+ and she had the Caphasol 4 times, but today her WBC has dropped and it is discontinued. Also, with all the emphasis on mouth care, I thought the questions needed to be asked. The nurse followed up with the charge nurse, who came in just a little later to tell us the NP had resumed the order.
3:20 pm brought more meds – Lovenox and the Ativan – and a nap in the chair.
When my Mom woke up she actually read some newspapers. Yes, they were several weeks old. But my Dad has been saving the local papers from home for her (unread) and she went through most of them. (It’s a very small local newspaper.) I mention this because, before today, she couldn’t concentrate or stay awake long enough to do something like this.
At 5:40 pm she retreated to the bed and tried to nap, but 10 minutes later the nurse came in to draw some blood, to check magnesium levels, and to administer Lomotil, Zofran and this evening’s course of TPN. As it was last night, the TPN will be given over a 12 hour period.
Dinner came and, though she was not interested in anything, she had about half a bowl of chicken broth and some tea. She could not manage any yogurt at either lunch or dinner.
At 6:45 pm the nurse was back in with some magnesium. My mom has had frequent problems keeping up her magnesium and potassium levels.
Pajamas and into bed at 7:30 pm. The day nurse brought the night nurse around to introduce her. A round of spirometry and dozing off.
She mentioned her legs were a little shaky while tooth-swabbing her teeth. She is certainly very tired and will need to get more calories in her to regain her energy.
And that is a day at Roswell in the world of SCT recovery.
Slowly but surely; but very slowly.
My Mom is very tired and moving slower today. She was not able to get back to sleep after each interruption during the night. Perhaps this is because she is no longer getting the constant does of fentanyl. I suppose there has to be some effect from a few weeks of not getting a consistent solid amount of sleep. She used the pain pump of fentanyl once overnight for some back pain, which resolved. The overnight TPN (total parenteral nutrition) stopped at 6 am this morning and her IV pole looks very empty. She needed magnesium this morning.
She was able to eat a little cream of wheat and a bit of yogurt for breakfast before a short nap. She is still dealing with diarrhea, though the occurrences seem to be less frequent. The nausea holds but is tolerable with the regular doses of Zofran and Ativan.
I notice she seems a little slow today in reactions too – she seems several steps behind what is happening today. I suspect that comes from a lack of REM sleep. Her BP is normal and the swelling in her feet has decreased a little.
Her counts went down today:
WBC: 5.59 (down)
Hemoglobin : 8.6 (down)
Platelets : 41 (up!)
AMC: 3.19 (down)
The doctor said she may need another growth factor shot, which was discontinued yesterday, and, if she needs a unit of blood, it would not be out of the ordinary. The platelets, which lagged behind for a few days, seem to have caught up.
The meds are starting to change up a little. Sometimes, when this happens, it’s a complete surprise. I realize it’s how the system works. The NP makes the order after rounds, and then the nurses respond. I often wish that someone would come and talk to us about it before it happens so that we understand the reason.
The Actigall and lactobacillus was stopped a few days ago when she was having problems swallowing. The Actigall (liver function) probably won’t come back if my mom continues to have normal liver function, but the lactobacillus may if my Mom wants that. It seems to me that, when she can swallow, this could be helpful in getting rid of the diarrhea. It goes along with the doctor wanting her to eat some yogurt several times a day (at least that’s my unscientific opinion).
New today is Cymbalta (duloxetine), used for depression, but the doctor said this is also for neuropathy. I looked it up and it also can be for pain. I had thought that was its purpose before we had a chance to talk to the doctor. However, she still got her gabapentin a few hours later, so I’m not sure what’s happening here yet. I need to find that out.
The short post-breakfast nap was interrupted for her antibiotic at 10 am.
At 11 am, my mom got CHG’d (it’s a verb, right?) and dressed and did 3 laps. She is moving slower today and making more used of her IV pole for support. But she is moving.
At 11:30 am, a round of meds came (Zofran, antifungal, Cymbalta).
Then 10 sit / stands and 15 step-ups. Again, these were not quite as ‘sure’ as yesterday. She is clearly fatigued today.
At noon, she was able to go through the pile of Christmas cards that my Dad has had waiting for her, and she opened a few more of the “one gift per day” gifts from the bag her sister-in-law and niece sent in the early days of this.
The doctor came at 12:30 pm. This is the first time he has come in when she is not in bed or sleeping. He got to see her in the chair and noticed that she was dressed in real clothes. We discussed what I had mentioned previously as well as the option for a fentanyl patch for pain if needed.
He also is talking discharge more and more. With New Year’s Day being next Thursday, it makes discharge a little trickier, since discharged patients have to come back the next day to the BMT clinic. All that needs to be sorted out.
This sets the head spinning a bit – It will be a bit of a move getting my mom out of there and into Hope Lodge. (And it’s supposed to get really cold next week.) I have to leave on January 1st for a week. My brother is away UNTIL January 1st. So there is a one day gap when neither of us can help with a move. We also don’t know if a room with a private bathroom will be available at Hope Lodge. If so, there will be a move inside of Hope Lodge. If not, the plan is for my parents to stay where my Dad and I have been and they will block off the bathroom next to our room just for them. I will be getting my things out of there before I leave and I already have plans to move to a hotel if there is an overlap.
Tomorrow, my Dad is going back home. The carpet cleaners are coming on Monday. He will bring back my Mom’s suitcases, some clothes for my mom, and containers of frozen food that my Mom got all ready in advance for the time at Hope Lodge. I will go there after I get back from my trip to continue with the washing of smaller carpets and a little more cleaning.
Logistics, logistics, logistics.
Housekeeping came in at 1:15 pm, so we were off to do 3 more laps followed by a nap in the bed.
At 2:00 pm, the nurse came in with the gabapentin and we were surprised to learn that the Caphasol (mouth swish) has been discontinued. I challenged it a bit with the very nice nurse, noting that yesterday her WBC was 7+ and she had the Caphasol 4 times, but today her WBC has dropped and it is discontinued. Also, with all the emphasis on mouth care, I thought the questions needed to be asked. The nurse followed up with the charge nurse, who came in just a little later to tell us the NP had resumed the order.
3:20 pm brought more meds – Lovenox and the Ativan – and a nap in the chair.
When my Mom woke up she actually read some newspapers. Yes, they were several weeks old. But my Dad has been saving the local papers from home for her (unread) and she went through most of them. (It’s a very small local newspaper.) I mention this because, before today, she couldn’t concentrate or stay awake long enough to do something like this.
At 5:40 pm she retreated to the bed and tried to nap, but 10 minutes later the nurse came in to draw some blood, to check magnesium levels, and to administer Lomotil, Zofran and this evening’s course of TPN. As it was last night, the TPN will be given over a 12 hour period.
Dinner came and, though she was not interested in anything, she had about half a bowl of chicken broth and some tea. She could not manage any yogurt at either lunch or dinner.
At 6:45 pm the nurse was back in with some magnesium. My mom has had frequent problems keeping up her magnesium and potassium levels.
Pajamas and into bed at 7:30 pm. The day nurse brought the night nurse around to introduce her. A round of spirometry and dozing off.
She mentioned her legs were a little shaky while tooth-swabbing her teeth. She is certainly very tired and will need to get more calories in her to regain her energy.
And that is a day at Roswell in the world of SCT recovery.
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Leealli - Name: Allison
- Who do you know with myeloma?: My Mom
- When were you/they diagnosed?: July 2014
- Age at diagnosis: 70
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