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New here - 39-year-old brother diagnosed yesterday

by Lucia on Wed Jul 01, 2015 10:33 am

Hi,

My 39-year old brother was diagnosed with multiple myeloma yesterday.

Here's the short story of the past 3 months:

He contracted a staph/strep infection at the gym; sat in the ICU for almost a month. After trying several antibiotics, he was sent home to heal.

Around June 16, he started complaining of debilitating back pain. A few days later, he couldn't even get out of bed. His girlfriend ended up calling the ambulance, and he headed back to the hospital. His blood and urine tested positive for M-proteins, which I guess they had found during his first trip to the hospital as well. The docs did a bone marrow aspiration, and his results were read to him yesterday at an oncologist appointment. He's due to start treatment today (shots once a week for 6 months and pills to take at home). The doc said no chemo is needed in myeloma cases; which he's happy about.

Maybe it's baby sister denial, but I think he should get a second or even third opinion. Part of me thinks that the blood / urine / marrow samples aren't 'clean', since he's already been through so much with the previous infection and treatments for it. I also understand the perspective that maybe he already had myeloma and that is why the infection hit him as hard as it did, but I'd rather him get the same diagnosis from several people rather than starting a treatment he may not even need. :cry:

Lucia
Name: Lucia
Who do you know with myeloma?: brother
When were you/they diagnosed?: 6.30.15
Age at diagnosis: 39

Re: New here - 39-year-old brother diagnosed yesterday

by Tracy J on Wed Jul 01, 2015 11:10 am

Hi Lucia,

Sorry to hear about your brother's troubles. The beginning is soooo overwhelming. On top of all the logistics and the emotional anguish, there's a whole new language to learn!

Were there any other tests they gave you results for? Specifically, I'm looking for blood counts (usually labeled as CBC), SPEP, UPEP, and serum free light chains. If they gave you printouts of results, these would be labeled. How about imaging (MRI or PET/CT)?

I'm confused about the treatment he's starting - the shots and the pills. Do you know the names of the medications?

I'm also confused about "The doc said no chemo is needed in myeloma cases," because this simply is not true. There is quite a bit of chemo in active myeloma. There are some circumstances when chemo is not given, but certainly in active myeloma, chemo is the backbone of treatment.

You are not alone! This is a great place for support and information!

By the way, I was 42 when I was diagnosed, so I can empathize with such a heavy diagnosis at a relatively young age.

Tracy J
Name: Tracy Jalbuena
Who do you know with myeloma?: Me
When were you/they diagnosed?: 2014
Age at diagnosis: 42

Re: New here - 39-year-old brother diagnosed yesterday

by Lucia on Wed Jul 01, 2015 4:33 pm

Thanks for the reply Tracy! It's all so new. I haven't gotten any real info from him. I just sent him a message asking all you brought up.

Lucia
Name: Lucia
Who do you know with myeloma?: brother
When were you/they diagnosed?: 6.30.15
Age at diagnosis: 39

Re: New here - 39-year-old brother diagnosed yesterday

by JimNY on Wed Jul 01, 2015 6:48 pm

Welcome to the forum, Lucia. I'm very sorry, however, that you have to be here due to your brother's diagnosis.

I suspect that your brother is being treated with Velcade (the injections) and Revlimid (the pills), combined with dexamethasone. Another possibility would be Velcade, Cytoxan, and dexamethasone. However, I'm guessing it's probably Velcade, Revlimid, and dexamethasone because of how your brother's doctor described it as 'not being chemo.'

By that, I think he meant that the treatment uses therapies (Velcade and Revlimid) targeted to treat specifically the myeloma, as opposed to older drugs that are broadly toxic to any rapidly growing cell population, which is what most traditional "chemotherapies" are.

Many people use "chemotherapy" to mean any cancer treatment. You will still find a lot of doctors, however, who feel that's misleading because the newer targeted therapies really are different than the older chemotherapy drugs.

Regardless of whether or not your brother's lab results show conclusively that the has multiple myeloma, I would really recommend that he try to make an appointment soon with a myeloma specialist to review his lab results and discuss treatment options. A myeloma specialist is not just a regular hematologist-oncologist who sees people with many different types of blood cancer; it is a doctor who sees almost only myeloma patients, and generally also does research in the field.

It's a good idea for all myeloma patients to see a myeloma specialist. I think it is particularly important, however, in the case of young myeloma patient. There are treatment options -- such as a donor stem cell transplant -- that might not be considered for an older myeloma patient, but really should be on the table for discussion when it comes to younger patients. A local hematologist-oncologist probably won't bring up these options, but a myeloma specialist might.

Good luck, and let us know what you find out and what additional questions you have.

JimNY

Re: New here - 39-year-old brother diagnosed yesterday

by Lucia on Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:17 am

Thanks, JimNY.

The injection is Velcade; tablets are: allopurinol and dexamethasone.

He is suffering from severe back pain. It takes him a serious hour or so, with lots of screaming and tears, to get from lying down to standing because he is in so much pain. Says he feels like his back is breaking in half. He also has a herniated disc that the docs say is not that bad and shouldn't be causing that kind of pain. Now I'm wondering if it's bone damage due to the myeloma - any ideas?! Is that 'normal', 'common'??

He was also told he's Stage II, What does that even mean?

Lucia
Name: Lucia
Who do you know with myeloma?: brother
When were you/they diagnosed?: 6.30.15
Age at diagnosis: 39

Re: New here - 39-year-old brother diagnosed yesterday

by Nancy Shamanna on Mon Jul 06, 2015 9:51 am

Hi Lucia, In addition to the comments made by Tracy and Jim, I would just like to add that your brother sounds as if he needs investigation of his spine, for the extreme pain. If it turns out that he has fractures, due to the myeloma, he may need to have some treatments especially for that, such as surgery, kyphoplasty or other. In addition, he may be starting treatment on bone building medications, such as Zometa or Aredia.

This sounds quite urgent, and I hope that you see the appropriate specialist to investigate the pain. I hope that you are seeing a 'myeloma specialist', who is really experienced with treating myeloma patients, also.

Best wishes to you and your brother!

Nancy Shamanna
Name: Nancy Shamanna
Who do you know with myeloma?: Self and others too
When were you/they diagnosed?: July 2009

Re: New here - 39-year-old brother diagnosed yesterday

by Naym on Tue Jul 07, 2015 12:27 pm

My husband was diagnosed with multiple myeloma in March 2014, and it started with severe back pain, which he attributed to previously diagnosed spinal stenosis. He was in agony, and was using ski poles to help walk around the house. He collapsed on the bathroom floor, and an MRI that day confirmed a plasmacytoma in his spinal column at the T11 vertebrae.

A tumor compressing on the spinal column can cause paralysis, and needs to be treated quickly to prevent long-term damage. As others have posted, your brother should push for an explanation for the extreme pain.

Multiple myeloma causes more than bone pain due to fractures - don't ignore the possibility of a plasmacytoma.

Naym
Name: Naym
Who do you know with myeloma?: Husband
When were you/they diagnosed?: March 2014
Age at diagnosis: 65

Re: New here - 39-year-old brother diagnosed yesterday

by Eric Hofacket on Tue Jul 07, 2015 4:24 pm

Lucia,

Given your brother's diagnosis of myeloma and the extreme back pain, he probably has already had a whole body skeletal survey done at a minimum that would show any significant back degeneration. As previous stated earlier in this thread, MRI and PET-CT scans are more sensitive and would be even better. In my opinion, based on what you have said, if he has not had whole body skeletal survey at a minimum, that might be reason for concern.

Radiologists are the experts at reviewing imaging results and assessing what they mean, though hema­tologist-oncologists and other doctors have all had experience and training in this as well. It is not unusual for a radiologist to be the first to discover myeloma in a patient. If there is bone damage, your brother's doctors are almost certainly going to treat this and try to rid the spine of any myeloma tumors through drugs or radiation. Repair and reconstruction, if needed, will be done by a spine specialist.

While, as others have said, seeing a myeloma specialist is always a good thing, any competent hematologist-oncologist should be able to run the necessary labs to make a diagnosis and stage the disease. Especially when it appears – as in your brother's case – that he is clearly expressing obvious physical signs, it does not appear he is on the borderline between active myeloma and smoldering myeloma or MGUS, where there could be a difference of opinion between doctors, even myeloma specialists.

I would not expect going to a doctor is going to get a different diagnosis. Maybe a different treatment approach, but not a diagnosis in your brother’s case. I would not worry that you brother is being seen by someone who is totally incompetent just because he or she is not a myeloma specialist. Velcade and dexamethasone is a very common initial therapy to treat myeloma, including by specialists, and in your brother’s case it does sound to me like treatment needs to be started immediately with something.

It can take a little time to do the research to find myeloma specialists in your area and decide who to go with. As you will learn, there can be quite a variation in treatment approaches for myeloma, even among myeloma specialists, and the patient will often have to make a decision about what best suits them. Myeloma specialist become increasingly valuable as the disease relapses and becomes more difficult to treat, or if significant side effects from myeloma or the drugs used to treat it become a problem. The Beacon is a good resource to learn more about this.

I too had very severe back pain that came up out of nowhere shortly after when I was first diagnosed. This is not unusual. I was sure my back was ruined permanently and I would be facing a long recovery. My doctor told me the first step to address the back pain was to start treatment to get the disease under control, and he was right. After a few weeks on Velcade and dexamethasone, the pain started subsiding considerably, and after a little over a month the back pain was gone completely, which really surprised me and I was elated about this.

Many others have had the same result, and then again many others have not. Myeloma can cause pretty severe inflammation in the back, causing great pain, but this is only inflammation and can be treated by knocking the disease down and using powerful anti-inflammatory drugs like dexamethasone.

But myeloma can also cause severe bone damage, which thankfully I did not have. It was mostly all inflammation in my spine. The key is the imaging results discussed earlier, which can provide important clues as to what the case is for your brother and what may need to be done.

Best wishes to you and your brother and I hope he finds some relief from the pain soon.

Eric

Eric Hofacket
Name: Eric H
When were you/they diagnosed?: 01 April 2011
Age at diagnosis: 44

Re: New here - 39-year-old brother diagnosed yesterday

by JimNY on Tue Jul 07, 2015 4:42 pm

Hi Lucia,

You're getting a lot of helpful feedback here. I'll just add that the allopurinol that your brother is being given isn't really being given to treat his multiple myeloma. It's usually given to treat gout, but it also can be given to protect the kidneys of cancer patients, including myeloma patients.

Best of luck to you and your brother. I hope he responds well to his treatment and that he gets the care he needs to deal with the pain he's been experiencing.

JimNY

Re: New here - 39-year-old brother diagnosed yesterday

by Lucia on Tue Jul 07, 2015 8:52 pm

Thank you for your replies.

Update: 30 minutes ago, he was transported to the hospital. He can't stand the back pain and is unable to sit up to drink, eat, or even take his pills. I was on the phone with our mother when the EMTs were lifting him to place him in the chair (stretcher won't fit in the tiny elevator of his condo building) and his screams were heart wrenching. :cry:

He did have an MRI with contrast. All I heard they got back was that there was no infection in the spine.

Lucia
Name: Lucia
Who do you know with myeloma?: brother
When were you/they diagnosed?: 6.30.15
Age at diagnosis: 39

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