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Re: Just got bad news - my mother has multiple myeloma

by Little Monkey on Tue Oct 04, 2016 7:43 pm

Amanduh,

Which treatment regimen (combination of medicines) are they planning to treat your mother with?

Little Monkey
Name: Little Monkey
Who do you know with myeloma?: Father-stage 1 multiple myeloma
When were you/they diagnosed?: March/April of 2015

Re: Just got bad news - my mother has multiple myeloma

by Amanda500 on Thu Oct 27, 2016 12:56 am

Just wanted to say hi and give my support. My mother was diagnosed with multiple myeloma in March 2016. It was a shock, as she has always been so healthy and is the wonderful rock of our family. My mom went through a stem cell transplant over the summer and it was very successful.

However, she did have a compression fracture prior to the transplant that was not caught by her doctor and is too advanced to do the cement procedure. She responded well to treatment and the transplant and is officially in complete remission. But, she continues to struggle with back pain related to her compression fracture. She is overall back to herself and says she feels great cancer free if it wasn't for that darn compression fracture.

I resonated with your post as I also am very close to my mother and have two young children. I feel that I am bursting with love, fear, confusion, and gratitude all at the same time.

It has been quite a last six months; I no longer cry as frequently, but definitely have a tender pit in my stomach and yearning to see her as much as I can.

Sending my love to you.
Amanda

Amanda500
Name: Amanda
Who do you know with myeloma?: Mother
When were you/they diagnosed?: March 2016
Age at diagnosis: 63

Re: Just got bad news - my mother has multiple myeloma

by Mar dog on Wed Nov 02, 2016 1:02 pm

HI!

My name is Marsha. My father was diagnosed in July and it has been so hard as he too is my best friend. I am a bit older, 40 but I have two little ones – 10 and 4 – who love their Gramps so much!

Mar dog
Who do you know with myeloma?: Father
When were you/they diagnosed?: 7/1/2016
Age at diagnosis: 68

Re: Just got bad news - my mother has multiple myeloma

by Amanduh on Fri Nov 04, 2016 10:07 pm

Amanda500 -

My mom had multiple compression fractures and had kyphoplasty surgery (cementing) back in July, which helped her out a lot, and then was diagnosed back in September with multiple myeloma. She might be getting her stem cell transplant around February. She's been reacting very well to her treatment so far. Fingers crossed!

Amanduh
Name: Amanda
Who do you know with myeloma?: My mom
When were you/they diagnosed?: 9/12/2016
Age at diagnosis: 56

Re: Just got bad news - my mother has multiple myeloma

by DaniGuid1 on Wed Nov 16, 2016 8:09 pm

My mother was also diagnosed with multiple myeloma back in February 2016, at the age of 57. She underwent her auto stem cell transplant in July 2016 after 3 rounds of induction therapy (Revlimid, Velcade, and dexamethasone).

At her 3 month follow up visit with her main oncologist and stem cell transplant team in Houston at MD Anderson, we found out she has relapsed. She was in complete remission after the transplant, so we weren't expecting this news at her appointment.

She has started back on Revlimid, Velcade, and dexamethasone, but her counts are still rising :( We go back to Houston in 2 weeks and will hopefully find out more about our next steps.

I don't really have people to talk to about this, so if you ever need someone, just keep sharing your experiences. My mom is my best friend and handling this all like a champ, but I am lost at times and so terrified of our future.

DaniGuid1
Name: Danielle Guidry
Who do you know with myeloma?: Mother
When were you/they diagnosed?: Feb 2016
Age at diagnosis: 57

Re: Just got bad news - my mother has multiple myeloma

by elizabethmwm on Wed Nov 16, 2016 9:23 pm

DaniGuid1,

I am a mother of two girls and also was diagnosed at age 57 in 2012. I'm sorry your Mom's stem cell transplant didn't "knock back" her multiple myeloma. I also get treatment at MD Anderson (stem cell transplant in February 2013) and continue to go to Houston twice a year (I live in Florida).

Best wishes to your Mom. You are at a good place for treatment.

elizabethmwm
Name: Elizabeth M
Who do you know with myeloma?: me
When were you/they diagnosed?: 8/20/2012
Age at diagnosis: 57

Re: Just got bad news - my mother has multiple myeloma

by Amanduh on Thu Jan 26, 2017 12:23 pm

It sure has been a while and I sure hope you all are around! My mom had her stem cell transplant last Wednesday (they used her own cells; I forget the correct term for it).

Shortly afterwards she started getting mouth sores and diarrhea and was nauseous for a couple days. Diarrhea and nausea stopped and she hasn't been eating because of her sores. Hasn't been drinking because she can't swallow, so they've been pumping her with fluids. Her blood work levels have dropped. Dropped so low that she received a platelet transfusion today. I just feel like she's going on a downward spiral. She received an IV of Dilaudid (hydromorphone) to help with her sores because morphine wasn't working. She's still in the hospital. They were aiming to get her home this Monday coming up, but I don't think that's going to happen. :(

Amanduh
Name: Amanda
Who do you know with myeloma?: My mom
When were you/they diagnosed?: 9/12/2016
Age at diagnosis: 56

Re: Just got bad news - my mother has multiple myeloma

by torifrog on Sat Jan 28, 2017 1:16 am

Hi Amanduh

Sorry to hear your Mum is having such a tough time. Hang in there, and know we are all here to support you.

Tori

torifrog
Name: Tori
Who do you know with myeloma?: Myself - MGUS
When were you/they diagnosed?: Sept 1 2016
Age at diagnosis: 51

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