I am based in Sydney, Australia & was recently diagnosed with multiple myeloma at 42years young. My haemalologist has given me life expectency between 6-12 months at stage 3 with significant bone lesions in both arms but ok at moment with everything else. My bone marrow biopsy showed 52% multiple myeloma para-protein, have not been told what an m-spike is, different terminology between our countries?
I would like to know why multiple myeloma is seen as a death sentence here whilst in America it's perceived with more hope to at least extend your life with various treatments & access to Revlimid etc.
Why don't we get Revlimid here or are they hiding it from me

I have been advised that a STC is my only chance in December but know nothing about stem cell harvesting....what the??? How long in hospital, is it painful (I'm a wuss), how damn sick am I going to get with pre-op chemo etc...i dont care if my hair falls out but i better buy a cap so my kids wont be scared, if this is done over December & Xmas I have to plan for my 3 children to be cared for, I'm a sole mother to an 8 month daughter, 23 month old son & 6 year old son ... Yes, just quietly, I am a legend sometimes

My treatment plan at present is Velcade, dex, cyclophosphamide.
So where is the Rev people & should I sell everything for a ticket to the states in the near future or investigate clinical trials here, where do I start, I don't have much support you see, emotionally speaking....probably shows

Yes, I realise I can do nothing until I have a follow-up consult about this mess that is now my life, but I did plan my funeral this week so my mother would not be able to play the Beach Boys & spend a fortune on purple roses....Bless her, she has the best of intentions but that would shock me back to life

Appreciating any insights or feedback of your own experiences thanks & absolutely no insult intended to said Beach Boys.
I WANT TO LIVE!!!!!