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Weekly polls of the Myeloma Beacon's readers on topics related to multiple myeloma. A new polls is posted every Wednesday.

What is the hardest thing about having smoldering multiple myeloma?

Poll ended at Wed May 15, 2013 2:41 pm

Changes in my physical appearance
0
No votes
Cost of appointments, treatments, and extra care
0
No votes
Fear of leaving my family behind
2
5%
Fear of progressing to multiple myeloma
7
18%
Feeling ill, in pain, or constantly tired
6
16%
Frequent medical appointments
0
No votes
Impact it has on my family
1
3%
Likelihood of a shorter lifespan
3
8%
Loss of control of my life
2
5%
Loss of relationships
0
No votes
Need to retire from my job
0
No votes
Not being able to do all of the things I used to do
1
3%
Side effects of treatment
1
3%
Spending lots of time in the hospital
0
No votes
The “cancer” label
0
No votes
Watchful Waiting
14
37%
Other
1
3%
 
Total votes : 38

Weekly Poll - Hardest Thing About Smoldering Myeloma

by Beacon Staff on Wed May 08, 2013 2:41 pm

This week’s poll asks what is the hardest thing about living with smoldering multiple myeloma?

A few clarifications:

First, this poll is for anyone who has been diagnosed with smoldering multiple myeloma.

Second, if you are a caregiver or family member of a smoldering myeloma patient, feel free to answer on their behalf.

As always, feel free to post comments, thoughts, or feedback in the space below. They can be very useful to other readers.

Especially, if you have selected "Other," please let us know what has been the hardest part of smoldering myeloma for you and why.

For those who are interested, we are also running the same poll for people with monoclonal gammopathy of undetermined significance (MGUS):
https://myelomabeacon.org/forum/weekly-poll-hardest-thing-about-mgus-t1903.html

We also previously ran a similar poll for people with multiple myeloma:
https://myelomabeacon.org/forum/weekly-poll-hardest-thing-about-myeloma-t1302.html

Beacon Staff

Re: Weekly Poll - Hardest Thing About Smoldering Myeloma

by john w on Wed May 08, 2013 3:33 pm

Waiting for the other shoe to drop

john w

Re: Weekly Poll - Hardest Thing About Smoldering Myeloma

by DanaH on Wed May 08, 2013 4:45 pm

I echo what John W wrote - waiting for the other shoe to drop and not having any way to know if it ever will or when it will - these thoughts pervade daily.

DanaH
Who do you know with myeloma?: Myself, SMM as of 1/2012
When were you/they diagnosed?: 1/2012
Age at diagnosis: 54

Re: Weekly Poll - Hardest Thing About Smoldering Myeloma

by MsKris70 on Wed May 08, 2013 5:07 pm

ALL of the above are equally hard because we really don't know what we're facing and when we're going to have to face it, while trying to remain positive and hopeful through all of it. The future is one big question mark. I don't know about anyone else, but the "watchful waiting" is quite unnerving, although necessary. It never really gives you a chance to rest your brain from thinking about it.

MsKris70

Re: Weekly Poll - Hardest Thing About Smoldering Myeloma

by Mary t on Sat May 11, 2013 11:47 am

This survey is comforting to me as I often beat myself up for being a hypochondriac since I am only "smoldering" I agree that all of the above enter my mind from time to time. Good to know I am not alone and there is a place to seek some understanding. Smoldering since 2007. The longer we smolder it becomes less likely we will become "active." Only 1 md has said to me that smoldering is an active process. I think as individuals we know how we feel and what changes in our daily health just can't be from aging.
God bless all living with mgus, smoldering multiple myeloma, and active myeloma, and all cancers.

Mary t

Re: Weekly Poll - Hardest Thing About Smoldering Myeloma

by Noga on Sun May 12, 2013 8:52 am

Good day! This poll is very relevant to me, having SMM, without any known damage to any organs, except to my immune system. I am under the "guard" of a wonderful hematologist/oncologist who specializes in multiple myeloma. I marked the option "Feeling ill, in pain, or constantly tired". It represents my biggest problem, especially since the doctors think that at this stage such symptoms are not usual. I do suffer from weakness, feeling unwell too often without actually being sick, and having pains in my bones. And yes, it does not seem to coordinate with age (I am 58). Thank you!

Noga

Re: Weekly Poll - Hardest Thing About Smoldering Myeloma

by Rvwoodin on Tue May 14, 2013 10:27 am

Being in a great deal of pain and very tired, I am disturbed most by the Oncology doctors refusing to treat my pain because I don't have "cancer". They refer me back to my primary care physician who referred me to the cancer center for anemia and other blood problems over a year ago.

Rvwoodin
Name: Roger
Who do you know with myeloma?: self
When were you/they diagnosed?: May2012 - SMM, multiple myeloma=Dec2013
Age at diagnosis: 67


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