by darnold on Sun Nov 24, 2013 1:46 pm
When I started myeloma treatment, my hair was long, and I wore it braided down my back. Before the SCT, it was already thinning and breaking from the thalidomide treatment. Although I hated feeling my braid getting thinner and thinner, I refused to cut my hair. Keeping it was my part of my anger about having myeloma.
Like Wayne, I started losing it within a day or two of the melphalan. It started growing back in a couple of months, very different from what it had been -- thicker on top and very curly. But, it was also brunette where it had been brunette before and grey where it had been grey before. Now, almost 4 years later, it is pretty much back to what it had been, but thicker and back down on my shoulders. (I won't let it get longer because I can't bear the thought of losing it again when it is very long.)
Keeping a sense of humor is important. When most of my hair was gone, my daughter, who was my caregiver, looked at me and said, "Mommy, you look like the Crypt Keeper" -- the comic book character from the 1950s. She found a picture of the Crypt Keeper, too a photo of me, and sent both to friends and family with a "look familar?" note. It's our quirky sense of humor. Almost everyone laughed over it. Laughing helped when I started vomiting......