Welcome to the forum, whudyg. I'm sorry you're here, but you've found a great place for information and support.
Hardly anything related to multiple myeloma is "standardized", but it is broadly accepted that the appropriate way to "treat" smoldering multiple myeloma is NOT to treat it. There are clinical trials that are testing whether it may be better to treat some smoldering multiple myeloma patient, but the trials are testing a THEORY, not a widely accepted practice.
But the key question in your case is: What is really your diagnosis. If a doctor has recommended treatment outside of a clinical trial, then it makes me wonder whether you have smoldering multiple myeloma, or (symptomatic) multiple myeloma, which does require treatment.
The appointment in Durham will almost certainly clarify what your diagnosis is. But we can help a bit. Here are some questions that should help:
- What is your "M-spike" (abnormal protein level)? (From your "SPEP" test)
- What are your serum free light chain levels (kappa, lambda, and kappa/lambda ratio)?
- What is your hemoglobin level?
- What is your serum (blood) calcium level?
- What is your creatinine level?
- What sort of imaging (xrays, MRI, PET/CT) have you had done, and what did it show?
- Have you had a bone marrow biopsy and, if so, what was your plasma cell percentage?