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Re: Riding to the end with my mother (fighting since 2009)

by momsmyhero on Sun Oct 09, 2016 1:37 pm

I'm sorry i haven't been back. My mom lost her battle October 5, 2016 at 6:58 pm. I was by her side all the way. It was hard to watch, but as soon as I bent over and told her Jesus loves her and so do I, she passed away within minutes.

Thank you all for your kind words. I pray for all going through this and all cancers. I pray for a cure. I wished I found you all earlier as it would have helped in my research with multiple myeloma as well as the support emotionally. Thanks again; my mom is now pain free for the first time in over 8 years.

My heart broke in a million pieces and I need to find out what I do from here now, as I've taken care of her all these years.

God bless all of you on this journey.

Christine M Young
January 4, 1952 - October 5, 2016
I love you mom!!!!

momsmyhero
Name: Stephanie
Who do you know with myeloma?: My mom
When were you/they diagnosed?: 2009, Stage 3
Age at diagnosis: 54

Re: Riding to the end with my mother (fighting since 2009)

by Mojbahar on Sun Oct 09, 2016 6:59 pm

I am really sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you have been going through till this moment.
God bless her soul, She is in peace now and most importantly pain free, I wish some day there will be a cure for this nasty disease.

Mojbahar
Name: M
Who do you know with myeloma?: Self mgus
When were you/they diagnosed?: Jully 2016
Age at diagnosis: 48

Re: Riding to the end with my mother (fighting since 2009)

by Victor L on Sun Oct 09, 2016 7:08 pm

Hello Stephanie,

I hope I may be permitted to say a few words. I am so sorry for your loss, I was there exactly thirty years ago this week. It was 12 October 1986 when my mother died, a mere 8 weeks after diag­nosis. In fact, it would have been her birthday today, the 9th of October.

The tears represent the love. It is sad if a person dies but there is nobody to cry. Even after all these years, the tears can come, just from a photograph or reading something she had written in her beloved Bible which I have kept close to me ever since. After a time, we realise that our parents live on through us. Everything you do, Stephanie, you will do as though your Mom is right there next to you,

Now I fight the battle, the appointments, the blood tests. It is not easy, and I am glad that neither of my parents lived long enough to learn of my illness. It is a consolation.

Your Mom is at peace now. Nothing can hurt her ever again, for her myeloma is history.

God Bless you and your loved ones, Love from my family and myself.

Victor L

Victor L
Name: Victor L
Who do you know with myeloma?: Me
When were you/they diagnosed?: 2012
Age at diagnosis: 58

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