My husband, 47 yrs old, showed up for his follow up after BMB and somehow gets all the way back to work without knowing he had been diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma. Oncologist told him he tested in the bad 1% and someone would be in and talk to him about clinical trials, and he could ask them questions. Then my husband said 30 min went by, a tech came in, told him "they" had all left, then gave him his next appointment (4 months) and his bill? He was sent packing! Later at work he notices on bill on the diagnosis line that the typed MMUS was marked out and Multiple Myeloma was hand wrote in by the Oncologist.
I still can't believe how this went down?? This past Friday I was able to get the 6 Page BM Biopsy Report from our regular Doctor. I have researched line for line all weekend, day and nite, looking up definitions, etc., but I seem to be more confused than when I started? For Example.... Multiple Myeloma isn't listed as the diagnosis on Biopsy Report. Is that normal? Or am I smack in the middle of the twilight zone?
Just to fill in the rest of my story.... my husband had/has no symptoms other than mild Enemia. No pain at all, ever. He has had some sort of low iron for most of his life. His bone scans came back with no damage seen, to date kidneys are unaffected. M Protein was the reason his regular Dr sent him to Oncologist. She tested it in 11/2011 and it was 8.4, and again in 3/2012, it was 7.9
I have sooooooo many questions...we weren't told what the outcome of biopsy might be... and knew nothing about multiple myeloma, so this is a long road to go... I have scanned in biopsy report and removed name, SSN, and other related info... Is there somewhere I could have it looked at for opinions, etc., to help me out of this fog? Not a doctor, I would would prefer a peer group such as here on this forum. Please don't yell at me if that's the dumbest thing you've ever heard... As most of you understand I feel as if my world and the person I Love the most is being ripped from my heart..
