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Pat Killingsworth wrote a regular column for The Myeloma Beacon from April, 2010 to February, 2016. He was diagnosed with multiple myeloma in April, 2007 at the age of 51. He initially achieved a complete response to treatment with a combination of extensive radiation and continuous drug-based therapy. Four years after his diagnosis, Pat's disease returned, and he underwent a series of additional treatments, including a total of three autologous stem cell transplants at different times. Unfortunately, Pat passed away on his 60th birthday in February, 2016. By that time, however, Pat had made a significant impact on the lives of many patients and caregivers through his extensive writing and speaking about multiple myeloma. Pat's efforts were supported and made possible in many ways by his wife Pattie, who is also a cancer survivor, and is still cancer-free today.

Pat Killingsworth has written 140 article(s) .

[ by | Oct 28, 2010 12:11 pm | 4 Comments ]
Pat’s Place: Flying The “Friendly Skies” With Multiple Myeloma

Air travel can be challenging, especially with an ongoing health condition. Multiple myeloma is certainly no exception. Busy airports, long security lines, and packed planes can be frustrating or even bad for your health.

Here are a few things multiple myeloma patients can do to in preparation for flying:

1. Don’t forget your address book. It is important to have all of your medical contact info with you when you travel, including your doctors’ phone numbers and insurance information. …

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[ by | Oct 21, 2010 1:03 pm | 2 Comments ]
Pat's Place: Hockey Promotion Gives Hope To Multiple Myeloma Patients And Their Families

On Monday night, I attended a National Hockey League game here in Tampa, Florida. The Tampa Bay Lightning played the Dallas Stars at an event billed as “Hockey Fights Cancer Night.”

Modeled loosely after the National Football League's breast cancer awareness program—you know, the one that has all of the players wearing pink shoes and hats—this promotion wasn't as big a deal.

No pink skates or helmets to be found. There were a few public announcements and banners. Young girls …

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[ by | Oct 14, 2010 2:38 pm | 11 Comments ]
Pat's Place: We Need To Be Respectful Of Our Fellow Myeloma Patients' Therapy Choices

Over the years, I have heard a large number of patients—and especially caregivers—aggressively defend their anti-myeloma therapy and treatment center choices.

At first I was confused by this. I didn't understand why others could become so upset and defensive over different therapy choices.

But the truth is: nearly every multiple myeloma patient and caregiver today has been placed in a horribly unfair and difficult position.

I'm not talking about our cancer—of course that isn’t fair! But I'm talking about …

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[ by | Oct 7, 2010 10:07 am | 6 Comments ]
Pat's Place: Multiple Myeloma Patients, Give Yourself A Break!

I like to look over other reader's comments after I read an article here at The Myeloma Beacon.

That's exactly what I did on Tuesday after reading Sean Murray’s column, Sean's Burgundy Thread: Staying Connected To Yourself While Living With Myeloma. If you haven't read Sean's columns yet, you should—it is a really fun read.

Sean and I both tend to be very proactive and positive when dealing with our cancer.

Anyway, I have noticed lots of similar comments …

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[ by | Sep 30, 2010 4:28 pm | 2 Comments ]
Pat’s Place: Thank God For Oncology Nurses!

Enduring cancer treatment—especially early on—can be painful and lonely. Having a great caregiver helps. But even then, a cancer patient often spends many hours alone getting x-rays, MRI’s and IV’s.

The one constant and saving grace for me has always been an oncology nurse. And I have had more than one good one, mind you. Wherever I have been treated, I have always received thoughtful, excellent care.

My nurses over the years have served as friends and counselors. They …

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[ by | Sep 23, 2010 10:32 am | 6 Comments ]
Pat’s Place: Visiting Your Primary Care Physician Is Important

I had been putting off seeing a doctor for over a year. Not my oncologist, mind you. I’m talking about my primary care physician—or family doctor.

As soon as I was diagnosed with multiple myeloma three and a half years ago, my primary care physician, Dr. Carrie Smith, stepped aside, turning all of my care over to my medical oncologist and myeloma specialist.

It’s hard to argue with that—fighting multiple myeloma requires a doctor who devotes their full time to …

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[ by | Sep 16, 2010 1:09 pm | 3 Comments ]
Pat's Place: Waiting And Watching Isn't A Death Sentence—It's An Opportunity!

Multiple myeloma patients experience a wide range of emotions: panic, fear, apprehension, anger, and frustration, to name a few. Undergoing medical testing and cancer therapies can be uncomfortable or downright painful.

But often, the hardest part is all of the waiting. Spending long hours in the waiting room. Spending days or weeks afterwards anxiously waiting for test results. Then waiting to meet with your doctor to decide what to do.

And there is another type of waiting all well-informed multiple …

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