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Tom Shell, who grew up in Michigan, was diagnosed with myeloma in 2012 at the age of 49. Tom, his wife Cindi, and their two teenage sons live in Haleiwa, Hawaii, where Tom works as a self-employed business consultant specializing in facility management. His passion though are adventure travel, deep sea fishing, bow hunting for wild pigs, golf, and whatever sports he can still manage to do with his boys. Tom and Cindi have traveled extensively (mostly before the boys arrived) by doing volunteer work around the world. Tom tries to live in the moment and has been known to frequently leave the "path well traveled" in search of what else is out there.

Tom Shell has written 26 article(s) .

[ by | May 11, 2016 10:07 am | 22 Comments ]
Myeloma In Paradise: Taking A Vacation From Multiple Myeloma

I just returned from a long trip to Europe, and boy do I feel refreshed! The reason I think I feel so good is that I took a holiday not just from work and the mundane problems of home, but I also took a holiday from my multiple myeloma.

I once again find myself feeling guilty for being one of the healthiest guys in the myeloma ward, so let me explain.

My wife and I spent about three weeks in …

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[ by | Mar 15, 2016 10:20 am | 13 Comments ]
Myeloma In Paradise: Too Busy To Be Sick

I just finished putting on a full-size school carnival earlier this month to raise money for our local high school, and I am still exhausted.

The idea of the carnival was born about 10 years ago when some friends and I were talking about raising money for our local school. Like most public schools, ours in Hawaii are horribly underfunded. I have always been good at fundraising in creative ways, and one of my favorite ways to raise funds is …

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[ by | Feb 2, 2016 5:26 pm | 10 Comments ]
Myeloma In Paradise: This Ride Never Ends

I recently returned from a holiday visit to our relatives on the mainland. For those of you unfamiliar with travel to or from Hawaii, the trip to anywhere out of state is LONG. A minimum of five hours of flying is needed to get anywhere. Our flight to Phoenix was six and a half hours this time.

After a lifetime of this kind of travel, you would think I would get used to it. You would be wrong.

It’s the …

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[ by | Nov 10, 2015 5:51 pm | 15 Comments ]
Myeloma In Paradise: Why Is Cancer So Hard?

A few months ago, a reader named Ginny D asked a question in response to one of my columns. She rhetorically asked “Why is cancer so hard? Not only for patients, but for caregivers, friends, and family? Why, for example, does it seem harder than heart disease or other life-threatening illnesses?”

I think it’s a great question.

I’m sure that almost everybody has had to go through the gut-wrenching ex­peri­ence of having someone (either themselves or a loved one) …

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[ by | Sep 21, 2015 5:10 pm | 13 Comments ]
Myeloma In Paradise: Carrying A Cancer Patient

If you have ever read any of my past columns, you will already know that I am all about “carpe diem,” or seizing the day. My father is my inspiration for this outlook. He has spent 50 years battling debilitating multiple sclerosis (MS) with a positive attitude that has allowed him to do the most with whatever he has each day.

My father's amazing ability to keep plugging away with a smile through his life-altering disease has carried me through …

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[ by | Aug 12, 2015 4:53 pm | 16 Comments ]
Myeloma In Paradise: Sometimes You Just Endure

I am writing today under the old adage of “misery loves company.” I don’t want you to be mis­er­a­ble, but I just need to share with some­body who understands.

For those of you currently enduring severe myeloma symp­toms or treat­ment side effects, please for­give me for sounding like a spoiled brat. How­ever, there are many of us who ex­per­i­ence myeloma like a dull constant head­ache, rather than a migraine. And that constant ache is a hassle (al­though I’m sure those …

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[ by | Jul 16, 2015 5:42 pm | 12 Comments ]
Myeloma In Paradise: Why Is Death So Hard?

I have been diagnosed with a terminal disease.

So have many of you. If you’re reading this, you mostly likely at least know somebody who has a terminal disease. The vast majority of you are di­rect­ly affected by this “terminal” diagnosis.

I think whoever came up with this term should get a linguistic award. "Ter­mi­nal" sounds like a very serious word, without all the hassle of the word "death."

Please don’t misunderstand. I’m not trying to make light of death …

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