I have been following many threads on the Beacon forum for almost a month. I got a lot of valuable advice and learned a lot about the techniques (used by different myeloma clinics) that have made the first month of my induction chemo quite tolerable.
I posted an introduction last month, "K_Shash's RVD induction therapy experience", and also participated in the discussion, started by Peggy B, on how some of you made the decision to have an (early) transplant. I am a few months away from 68 and wondering if the ASCT is for me at all.
I scanned through a lot of discussion threads and I did not find any discussion about this "age-related" topic:
I am almost 68 (old age?) and let's assume that I am not opting for an early transplant. Would it make sense (under the current state of the medical science, i.e. with the current 'state of the art' medical devices, drugs and procedures) to even plan a transplant around the age of 75?
I am under a lot of family pressure to get my stem cells harvested and stored. I asked about what this involves on another thread and was referred to The Complete Guide to Stem Cell Harvesting by goldmine848. This guide and ensuing discussion on that thread were very helpful. However, I came to the conclusion that the stem cell harvest is a week-long painful ordeal!
My personal concerns are:
- IF I won't need a transplant till I reach 75 (major "IF", because I am not sure how quickly I may get a relapse after this induction therapy, AND assuming it is going to give me a near complete remission, but
- Based on about 8 or 10 cases (that I know of, second hand, from the doctors treating these cases), a 8 - 10 years without relapse on maintenance therapy after the induction therapy (at least for for my IgG - kappa myeloma) is not uncommon. Therefore, I should not have a relapse till I reach 75 - 77.
OR
Would it be better to go through another induction therapy boost and get a few more years of remission and enjoy life on another long period (5+ years) of maintenance therapy?
Even if I opted for the transplant at 68 or 69, the chances are I would get a relapse in 3 to 5 years. And I am not at all sure what my physical strength and endurance would be after the 6 months of this induction chemo. Would I be able to play golf regularly, and go for 3 -5 mile walks, keep up with the grandsons in their skiing, camping, etc.? I think I can do that once or twice a week now during this induction phase, and I am sure I can do that when I am in the maintenance phase.
So far I have tolerated the RVD Therapy well, but I have read in some of the threads how patients developed major side effects and could not use some of these drugs after a few months.
Quality of life consideration:
My preference would be to relatively enjoy life and manage all my activities during the 3-6 months while undergoing the induction therapy (instead of undergoing a transplant) around the age of 75; rather than try and gain a few years well past 80 (when one may be languishing in a retirement home!).
Anyway, this 'multiple myeloma monster' has stopped me from wondering "what if" I were to live long and get dementia after 85 or 90. Same for not having to plan an independent living in a retirement community on a golf course. Also, these options seem better than living on dialysis, which I was afraid I may have to do after the earlier scare about kidney failure (high protein level in the urine).
Until recently, I had been wondering about how my wife and I would make the most of our time after we reached 80+. The myeloma monster had not entered the picture until recently. However, now I am concerned about being as healthy and active as I had expected to be at 75 or 80, given the toll this chemo (induction and maintenance) therapy is going to take on my body. And I am not sure I want the "scars of transplant" slowing me down around 75.
That there are at least 8 or 10 old time patients, not counting many that posted their non-transplant experience on a recent thread, continuing to do well on just the maintenance therapy (after the initial induction chemo and never any transplant) for 8 - 15+ years under the care of a couple of physicians I know, helps my 'take a reasonable risk' nature.