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Does Revlimid affect the spouse?

by pym on Mon Sep 30, 2013 8:21 pm

I am new to this forum. My husband is in remission from multiple myeloma. He was diagnosed in Jul.2011, after which he went through 4 sessions of chemotherapy with velcade-dexa-revilimid combination. In Nov. 2011, he had his first transplant and started being on clinical trial and had a tandem (2nd) transplant in Feb. 2012. Since then he is on revilimid maintainance. He was started with 15mg., notwithstanding, reduced to 10mg. and for the past few months is reduced to 5mg.

He is able to work fulltime, exercises everyday, no problems in eating. This is his introduction. He is able to be sexually active also. I am in my post menopause. I used to have good immunity. For the past few months, my immunity levels have gone down and I get sick more easily and often. My recent blood report showed the neutrophyll count as low which hasnt been the case until now. My husband and I have a question to the forum - is our being sexually active causes the revilimid to get into my system affecting my immunity? Thanks.

pym
Name: pym
Who do you know with myeloma?: spouse
When were you/they diagnosed?: July 2011

Re: Does Revlimid affect the spouse?

by Whatsamatteru on Mon Sep 30, 2013 8:59 pm

Hard to imagine that such a tiny fraction of Revlimid in your spouse's system would have any effect. Think about the dilution. Your husband takes Revlimid, which is absorbed from his blood into all body tissues, including bone marrow. While the drug can damage sperm cells, I don't easily see how such trace amounts in sperm would have a significant effect on a partner's body.

Whatsamatteru

Re: Does Revlimid affect the spouse?

by Denise H on Tue Oct 01, 2013 6:33 pm

Since Celgene issues a strong warning about Revlimid being carried in the sperm of men who take it, I would think your suspicions may be correct. The warnings I have seen have to do with concerns of possible birth defects if a woman becomes pregnant, but to me, other harmful possibilities could exist.

If I were you, I would suspend unprotected intercourse until you find out what is going on.

Denise H

Re: Does Revlimid affect the spouse?

by JBarnes on Fri Oct 04, 2013 4:40 pm

You may need to do a blind study on this. Have your husband get a girlfriend and stop intimacy with you. After six months draw the blood and find out if yours is now better and the girlfriends is worse. :)

There are several of us on Rev maintenance who have discussed this and our spouses have had no issues with their blood chemistry.

JBarnes
Name: Jerry Barnes
Who do you know with myeloma?: Self
When were you/they diagnosed?: Aug 17, 2012
Age at diagnosis: 54

Re: Does Revlimid affect the spouse?

by pym on Fri Oct 04, 2013 7:08 pm

Thanks. This is the first time I am discussing this somewhere, leave alone with somebody.
Your sense of humour is good!

pym
Name: pym
Who do you know with myeloma?: spouse
When were you/they diagnosed?: July 2011

Re: Does Revlimid affect the spouse?

by Denise H on Sat Oct 05, 2013 6:44 pm

Yes, humor is good, but some people are more sensitive than others to exposure to various substances/chemicals. I would err on the side of caution. It wouldn't hurt to protect against the exposure and see if the neuts come up.

Denise H

Re: Does Revlimid affect the spouse?

by Concerned Consumer on Sat Jul 12, 2014 5:53 pm

Not to scare anyone, but I found evidence that multiple myeloma may be transmittable to spouses. Some of the reported incidents occurred in 50's other's 1990's. I took into account the term "reported incidents" to mean there could be other incidents which have not been reported.

I did not subscribe to the site below -- the chart reflected enough information for me. Perhaps the best thing to do is to see our physicians to be tested. Does not mean divorce, but may want to consider condoms.

http://archinte.jamanetwork.com/article.aspx?articleid=577917

Wishing you the best possible outcome,

Concerned Consumer

Concerned Consumer

Re: Does Revlimid affect the spouse?

by Rneb on Sat Jul 12, 2014 9:40 pm

Consumer---Dang, where is my Ex ??

She took so much from us already, ...I should forgive her and share my multiple myeloma with her !
MY CD 38 , CD 20, and CD 19 are hers...( and she thought it was merely Bank Investments--Ha!)

Pym--Seriously, the 1/2 life of Revlimid is 3 hrs. It eliminates from the body via kidneys/ ureters. It is, however, a drug that accumulates a bit in fat & tissue. Takes about 4 + weeks to flush from the body. The Thalomide issues are/ were thought to be more involved at the formation stage of the Zygote, and the subsequent Uro-genital split and the Budding process. ( ANTI-GENESIS) That is why there were so many limb deformities in children.

Nothing I have ever read, indicates toxicity to others--other than the reproductive process above. But, I guess anything is possible. You'd think the FDA would have looked at that, before approving Revlimid.

PYM---I guess you'll have to "enroll your husband in a personal study"--make him wear condoms, you don't handle them, and see what happens to your blood work/ symptoms for 4 weeks and 8 weeks. ??
Then again, what was that Woody Allen flick--where they wore full body condoms --and didn't even exchange saliva ???

I laaaughhh at the celgene survey every month--I ask the rep if I could get an RX for sex, too. Condoms and all.

No response, just yet.

Good luck.

Rneb

Re: Does Revlimid affect the spouse?

by kjpoppit on Sun Jul 13, 2014 2:22 am

Concerned Consumer wrote: "Not to scare anyone, but I found evidence that multiple myeloma may be transmittable to spouses ..."

Woah, stop the bus! Is there anything more current than this? It is very scary to think multiple myeloma could be transmissible but I am skeptical this is the case or you would think there would be more information and doctors would warn us.

Best wishes to all,
Kim

kjpoppit
Name: Kim Nelson
Who do you know with myeloma?: Me
When were you/they diagnosed?: Sept. 19th, 2013
Age at diagnosis: 47


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